The man by the
name of Demas is only mentioned in the Bible three times, all three times by
the apostle Paul. Demas was for a time a
fellow traveler and fellow worker with Paul.
He is mentioned in the closing of the book of Colossians, a book written
around AD 60, as one who with Paul and others sent their greetings to the
church at Closse (Col. 4:14).
Again in the
book of Philemon in verses 23 and 24 he along with Epaphras, Mark, Aristarchus,
and Luke send greetings to Philemon and Paul says these men are his fellow
workers or in the old King James language his “fellowlabourers.” The book of Philemon is said to have been written
around AD 60.
However, by
the time Paul wrote his last letter, the book of Second Timothy, dated anywhere
from AD 64 to AD 68, Paul says sadly that “Demas has forsaken me” (NKJV) or in
the wording of the NAS “has deserted me” (2 Tim. 4:10). And why--“Having loved this present world”.
(2 Tim. 4:10 NKJV)
One gets the
idea that Demas had been with Paul for a number of years and had only recently
departed. Why else mention his departure
if it was one of long standing, old news, that had occurred years before?
We have then a
man who had traveled and worked with Paul, sacrificed and struggled along with
him, endured the hardship a number of years, and saw with but little doubt the
miracles Paul performed, and yet this Christian man fell away. If under those circumstances a man can fall
away then we all can. If a man can walk with an
apostle and fall away, then any person can, and so the threat is real. And threat it is for to fall away is to be
eternally lost if we do not repent.
Can you and I
learn anything from the life of Demas worth our while? I believe we can.
Paul says
Demas loved the present world. John
says, “Do not love the world, nor the things in the world. If any one loves the world, the love of the
Father is not in him.” (1 John 2:15 NAS)
The greatest battle man will ever have to fight is that of the love of
the world. We live in a body of flesh, a
worldly body, and that body by nature is attracted to and desires the things of
the world.
John tells us,
“all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and
the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world.” (1
John 2:16 NAS) What Demas wanted out of
the world we are not told. Was it money,
an easier life, respect, or just, in general, to “enjoy the pleasures of sin
for a season (Heb. 11:25 KJV)? We are
not told. In a way, it makes no difference.
There is no
doubt the world has much to offer as long as we live in the flesh. Who really desires to make their life a
living self-sacrifice (Rom. 12:1) every day of the year? Who desires to always put self second? Who is it that does not desire respect from
his fellow man in this world?
Christians are
not well thought of by most of the world.
We are ridiculed and made fun of and our company is not sought. As the kids would say no one wants to hang
out with us. Who really desires that? Who is it that does not desire to achieve
great things in this world and be praised by his fellowman and looked up to? The world offers us the opportunity for
worldly wealth and possessions, honor and prestige, and sexual freedom. Christianity, in this life, offers daily self-sacrifice.
Paul says, 1
Cor. 4:9-13, in speaking of the apostles (in the broad sense of the term):
“We have
become a spectacle to the world, both to angels and to men. We are fools for Christ’s sake, but you are
prudent in Christ; we are weak, but you are strong; you are distinguished, but
we are without honor. To this present
hour we are both hungry and thirsty, and are poorly clothed, and are roughly
treated, and are homeless; And we toil,
working with our own hands; when we are reviled, we bless; when we are
persecuted, we endure; When we are
slandered, we try to conciliate; we have become as the scum of the world, the
dregs of all things, even until now.” (NAS)
I am not sure
Demas was an apostle, in the broad sense of the term, but he was with Paul here
and there and surely saw and/or experienced for himself some of these very things. Maybe Demas just got tired.
The world
offers worldly honor to those who play by its rules and succeed. Instead of being reviled, there is praise. Those successful in the world do not go
hungry. They are not clothed in rags;
they are not persecuted; they are not slandered.
I tend to
think, but cannot prove it and do not bind it upon you, that Demas just got
tired. I do not believe he wanted to go
off to commit adultery, cheat, lie, and steal.
I don’t think he left because he wanted a first-century equivalent of a three
car garage and a multi-million dollar home.
I don’t think he quit and left Paul and God because he wanted to be rich
and famous. I think he left because he
wanted out of the line of fire, wanted an easier life, wanted to live in peace
with the world, wanted to live much like others of his countrymen. Certainly, I can be wrong and freely admit
this is nothing more than pure speculation on my part, not biblical doctrine.
We must
remember that non-Christians are often honest and hard working people respected
in the community even if they are unwilling to give God the time of day. A worldly person is not necessarily indulging
in every sin under the sun. Most are
quite respectable in their own communities.
Nevertheless, their love is for the world, not God.
What do we
learn from Demas?
(1) We learn it is easy to quit and lose
everything. Demas sacrificed years of
his life for nothing. All of those years
wasted, all of the sacrifice now for nothing and why? He quit.
I think most
Christians have times in their life when they would like to give up, to quit. Things are not going good for us, things are
bad in the church, and no remedies seem at hand.
Demas
sacrificed it all when he gave up. We
can do the same. In fact, that is the
easy thing to do. Staying with it is
what is hard. Quit and you have wasted
the past and forfeited the future but for a time you feel free, free for you
have abandoned all responsibility. We
need to think long and hard before we quit.
Quitters not only do not win they lose everything. We should learn that. Quitters in the spiritual realm do not come
in second or third. They lose
everything.
John says, (2
John 8), “Look to yourselves, that we do not lose those things we worked for,
but that we may receive a full reward.”
We think it very ill-advised and foolish when one drops out of school
before graduating after having put in years of work and losing and wasting all
that time, money, and effort for nothing.
How much more significant is the loss, and how much more dire are the
consequences when we give up living the Christian life.
(2) We learn from Demas that the faith of the
best of men can fail. We never grow so
strong but what we can lose our faith.
Some think if we had miracles today people would believe and would
automatically become strong Christians with steadfast faith. I am satisfied Demas saw miracles. I am sure Paul spoke about seeing Jesus after
his resurrection from the dead. Yet,
finally in the end it made no difference with Demas. It made no difference with the children of
Israel who came out of Egypt with Moses.
The miracles did not matter. If
their faith failed ours can too. Sin
doeth so easily beset us (Heb. 12:1 KJV).
(3) We learn also that the world has an enormous
pull on us and will as long as we live in a body of flesh. We learn it is not easy to walk with an
apostle, a thing we all ought to be doing.
It is a tough, tough road and often a long one and we should not kid
ourselves or others. We should prepare
for it. Unless, as the Bible says, we
put on the whole armor of God, how can we hope to survive?
Paul said in 2
Tim. 4:16 (NAS) concerning his trial, “At my first defense no one supported me,
but all deserted me; may it not be counted against them.” Are we stronger than they were? Are we stronger than Peter who denied the
Lord three times? We are, at our best,
but weak and feeble men and women prone to the lust of the flesh, the lust of
the eyes, and the pride of life.
What can we do
to keep our faith from failing us? There
is a vast multitude of Christians who have lost their faith and many who have
just given up and left God and the church.
How do we survive when we so often want to do as Demas did? How do we resist the temptation of the call
of the world?
The answer is to
build our faith. How does one do that? There is a two-part answer to that. First, we must recognize our need, and understand
who and what we are. We must see our
need and our weakness. A wise man is one
who observes, learns, and takes heed. In
the last part of the book of Job God is questioning Job beginning in chapter
38. Much of that runs along the line of
Job can you do this, can you do that, God can.
He is showing Job man’s weakness and need for trust in God.
For example,
God asks Job (38:31-32), “Can you bind the cluster of the Pleiades, Or loose
the belt of Orion? Can you bring out
Mazzaroth (literally ‘Constellations’--NKJV footnote) in its season? Or can you guide the Great Bear with its
cubs?” (NKJV)
In the New
Testament Jesus says “you cannot make one hair white or black” (Matt. 5:36). We are unable to add a cubit to our stature,
unable to add a single day to our life. “For
what is your life? It is even a vapor
that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.” (James 4:14 NKJV) A mother or dad, a son or daughter, a husband
or wife passes away and there is not one thing you can do about it.
Scientists
talk about distances in outer space in terms of billions of light-years. A look into the clear night sky on a cold
winter night when there is no haze and one cannot help but be overwhelmed if he
only takes the time to consider what he is seeing. If we would stop just long enough in our life
to consider seriously where all this is leading us we would see our need for
Jesus and could develop our faith.
Faith begins
with a man being honest with himself about his own inability to have control
and his need for help, help from a power greater than him. When we see and admit our impotence this
leads to the will to believe. I
strengthen my faith by an awareness of what I am (a mortal with very limited
power or control) and an understanding of my great need.
Secondly, to grow
faith we must immerse ourselves in the word of God. “So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by
the word of Christ.” (Rom. 10:17, NAS)
You cannot believe what you do not know.
The more of the word of God you know, the better you understand it, the
more your faith will be strengthened.
One cannot expect to be a casual and occasional reader of the word of
God and be strong in the faith. It does
not work that way.
Paul, in
writing to Timothy (2 Tim. 3:15 NAS), speaks of “the sacred writings which are
able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in
Christ Jesus.”
We must
believe what Jesus told us. We must
believe there is a reward awaiting us.
“He who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder
of those who diligently seek Him.” (Heb. 11:6 NKJV) It has often been said that Peter walked on
the water as long as he looked at Jesus rather than the water and that is
true. We can figuratively walk to heaven
if we continue to look to Jesus rather than at the trials and troubles and
temptations we are here faced with. Do
you believe? You have to believe. Way, way down deep within your heart you have
to believe.
We can believe
if we will. John says, 1 John 5:4, “this
is the victory that has overcome the world-our faith.” (NKJV) Paul says faith is a shield (Eph. 6:16), a
protection for us. With it we can
“extinguish all the flaming missiles of the evil one” in the language of the
NAS. (Eph. 6:16)
We often
believe well enough in Jesus except when it comes to his love for us as an
isolated individual. We feel He will
save everyone else but not us for we just keep on sinning despite our will not
to. If it is not this sin then it is
that one. Isn’t that true of how we
often feel? Do we not at times just feel
like giving up?
But, why did
Jesus die? Did he die so men could be
saved by perfect law-keeping? Did he die
so that only those who are really deserving could be saved, deserving because
so good and perfect in their law-keeping?
John says, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the
truth is not in us.” (1 John 1:8 NKJV)
David Lipscomb once said that he doubted that any man ever lived a
single day without sin. Are all men
doomed despite the death of Jesus?
Peter tells us
that God is “not willing that any should perish but that all should come to
repentance.” (2 Peter 3:9 NKJV) When
Peter asked the Lord (Matt. 18:21) how many times he should forgive a brother
and said, probably thinking he was being generous, seven times the Lord answers,
“I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.” (NKJV) The Lord tells us thus that there is no set
limit on the number of times we should be willing to forgive. He is indirectly also telling us that is also
the way it is with the Father?
Isaiah says
(Isa. 55:7 NKJV), “Let the wicked forsake his way, And the unrighteous man his
thoughts; Let him return to the Lord, And He will have mercy on him; And to our
God, For he will abundantly pardon.”
In Luke 17:3–4,
Jesus says (NAS) “Be on your guard! If
your brother sins, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times a day,
and returns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent, forgive him.’” This tells me that if in my life it just
seems as though it is one sin after another yet, if I will truly repent, the Lord
will forgive me and will forgive you likewise.
We should never give up; never reach the point where we become so
frustrated with our own lives that we walk off in despair and hopelessness. No case is hopeless as long as you care.
“For God did
not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world
through Him might be saved.” (John 3:17 NKJV)
One suspects the greatest danger in life is not that of recognizing sin
and unworthiness in one’s life but rather that of not recognizing it. Remember the two men who went up to pray
(Luke 18:10), the Pharisee and the tax-gatherer? The Pharisee basically prayed along the lines
of God I thank thee that I am not a sinner like others while the tax-gatherer
prayed “God, be merciful to me a sinner!” (Luke 18:13 NKJV) The tax-gatherer Jesus says went down to his
house justified, thus forgiven. The
Pharisee left unjustified, unforgiven.
It is a
positive in your life if you feel deep down in your heart that you are unworthy
as did the tax-gatherer. The real threat
when our unworthiness pricks our hearts is that we may despair and give
up. Do not do that. The Bible teaches us in passage after passage
that it is the humble man that God will exalt, the truly deep down in the heart
humble man, not the man who merely pretends humility.
Jesus is our
only hope in this world. He has said, “I
will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Heb. 13:5 NKJV) In the Phillipian letter, Paul says, “I can
do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Phil. 4:13 NKJV)
“Let us
therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find
grace to help in time of need.” (Heb.
4:16 NKJV)
Let us
“imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises” (Heb. 6:12
NKJV) of God. Let us gather strength and
not become a Demas.
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